Sarah Stark "Sally" Oldham

Sarah Stark "Sally" Oldham

Rutkin, Oldham & Griffin, LLC

Recognized since 2006

Westport, Connecticut

Practice Areas

Family Law

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Connecticut Bar Association, Member, Executive Committee, Family Law Section 1993 - Present, Fairfield County Bar Association, American Bar Association, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (2005 - Present), International Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (2007 - Present). Certificate of Completion GAL/AMC Comprehemsive Basic Training, State of Connecticut, 2012.

Member, Connecticut Law Review, 1986-1988, Board of Editors, Connecticut Family Lawyer, 1994-2000, Co-author, Connecticut Practice Series: "Family Law and Practice", (2 Vols.), West Group, 1999-2000. Articles: "Effective Utilization of Mental Health Professionals in Family Cases", Connecticut Bar Association, March 2001; "How to Avoid the Pitfalls and Pratfalls of Dividing Pensions", Connecticut Bar Association, May 2002; "Hot Topics, The Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA)", Connecticut Bar Association Annual Meeting, June 2003; "Inheritances, Gifts & Pre-Marital Assets", Connecticut Bar Association, October 2003; Moderator of Symposium on Professionalism, Regional Bar Asscociation, November 2004; "Comple Issues in Family Law Cases" or "How to Handle Tricky Questions and Sticky Situations", April, 2005; "Psychological testing in Cases of Disputed Custody", ABA-APA Conference, April, 2008; "An Overview of Property Division and Spousal Support Regimes in the U.S.", International Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers Annual Meeting, Queenstown, NZ, September 2010; "Substance Abuse Issues in Family Law Cases", Connecticut Chapter of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers Advanced Custody Seminar, May, 2012.


  • 5 Imperial Avenue
    Westport, CT 06880


  • University of Connecticut, J.D., graduated 1988
  • Southern Connecticut State University, MS, graduated 1974
  • Wesleyan University, BS, graduated 1972

Bar Admissions

  • Connecticut, Connecticut Bar Association

Recognized in The Best Lawyers® in America 2023 for work in:

  • Family Law


  • Best Lawyers in America, 2005 - Present
  • Connecticut Magazine "Best Lawyers" Top 25 Female Lawyers, 2007 - Present
  • "New York Area's Best Lawyers", 2007 - Present
  • Ten Leaders, 2008 - Present

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