Carolyn Abbate

Carolyn Abbate

Arlington, VA recognized lawyers icon Recognized in Best Lawyers since 2024
The Irving Law Firm

1 Best Lawyers award

Awarded Practice Areas

Family Law

Biography

Carolyn Abbate is a top attorney recognized by Best Lawyers in the practice area(s) of Family Law.

Carolyn, who practices law in Arlington, Virginia, has been recognized since 2024. This recognition is based on an exhaustive peer-review survey, reflecting the high esteem in which Carolyn is held by other top lawyers in the same geographic and legal practice area.

The Irving Law Firm

1 Best Lawyers award

Overview

  • George Mason University, J.D., graduated 2009
  • George Mason University, J.D., graduated 2009

Client Testimonials

Carolyn Abbate is truly an exceptional lawyer. Her organizational skills, attention to detail, kindness, compassion, and unwavering helpfulness were remarkable throughout my legal journey. In one of the most vulnerable times of my life, Carolyn's focus was always on what was best for me. She guided me through every step of the process with patience and understanding, ensuring that I felt supported and informed at all times. I am profoundly thankful for everything Carolyn did for me. Her dedication and expertise made a world of difference, and I couldn't have asked for a better advocate.

Melissa Sheedy

Ms. Abbate was thorough, professional and kind throughout the divorce process. She has a pragmatic approach that I truly appreciated. I felt that she was solely focused on obtaining the best outcome for me which she successfully achieved.

Carolyn was very sympathetic during my consultation and gave me very helpful advice for preparing for the separation and divorce process. She was responsive and helped me understand all of the procedural steps of the divorce process, and I felt that I was in good hands with her. She was easy to talk to, which was important to me in selecting a family law attorney.

Rebecca Green

I cannot express enough gratitude for Carolyn Abbate and the incredible team at Grenadier, Duffett, Levi, Winkler and Rubin PC. Carolyn's expertise, compassion, and unwavering dedication guided me through what was undoubtedly the toughest time in my life. From the moment I walked through their doors, I knew I was in capable hands. Carolyn's firm, organized approach immediately instilled confidence in me. She took the time to listen to my concerns, understand the intricacies of my situation, and develop a clear, goal-driven strategy. Throughout the entire process, she was not only my advocate but also a source of support and reassurance. Navigating a military division of assets is no easy feat, but Carolyn's extensive knowledge and experience in this area were evident every step of the way. She ensured that every aspect was meticulously addressed, ultimately leading to a fair settlement that protected my interests. What truly sets Carolyn and her team apart is their genuine care for their clients. Even in the midst of my foggy confusion, they were consistently kind, supportive, and attentive to my needs. Their unwavering commitment to my well-being went above and beyond anything I could have imagined. Thanks to Carolyn Abbate and her exceptional team, I emerged from this challenging chapter with my dignity intact and a sense of empowerment I never thought possible. I wholeheartedly recommend Carolyn to anyone in need of a divorce lawyer who not only gets results but also truly cares about their clients' welfare.

Melissa Sheedy

Awards & Focus

Recognized in The Best Lawyers in America® 2026 for work in:
  • Family Law

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