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Biography

Andrea Vacca has practiced family law in New York since 1993 and has spent more than two decades focused exclusively on non-adversarial resolution: collaborative divorce, divorce mediation, and prenuptial agreements. She founded Vacca Family Law Group on the conviction that court is rarely necessary and almost always costly, in money, privacy, and family relationships.

Andrea is a past president of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals, a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, and an American Arbitration Association Family Mediation panelist. She has been recognized by Super Lawyers in Family Law since 2014, including selection to the Top 100: New York Metro and Top 50 Women: New York Metro lists in 2025, and by Best Lawyers in America in Family Law and Family Law Mediation since 2024 and in Collaborative Law: Family Law since 2026. Her work has been cited in the New York Times, Bloomberg, Forbes, and the ABA Journal. Andrea also holds a degree in Journalism and is a Certified Positive Psychology Coach through the Whole-Being Institute.

Works at
Vacca Family Law Group

1 Best Lawyers award

Vacca Family Law Group logo

Locations

Education

  • Albany Law School of Union University, J.D., graduated 1992

Bar Admissions

  • New York, New York State Bar Association, 1993

Client Testimonials

Awards & Focus

Recognized in The Best Lawyers in America® 2027 for work in:
  • Collaborative Law: Family Law
  • Family Law
  • Family Law Mediation

Q&A

Vacca Family Law Group resolves divorce and family matters exclusively outside of court for high-net-worth New Yorkers with complex assets, business interests, and reputations to protect. Every matter stays out of the public record.

"Is this approach strong enough to protect me?"

Yes. Collaborative divorce and mediation require full financial disclosure, independent legal representation, and enforceable agreements. They offer the same rigor as litigation without the court, cost, or public record. Clients with closely held businesses, executive compensation, real estate, or investment portfolios resolve their matters with our firm regularly and effectively.

 

"What if my spouse won't cooperate?"

We help clients think through that conversation before it happens. When both parties understand the cost of litigation in time, money, privacy, and family relationships, they're usually more willing and able to cooperate.

I won't describe specific matters, but I can describe a pattern that has stayed with me. Some of our most meaningful work involves clients who came to us after an initial experience with a litigation attorney, who had already watched the process become adversarial and costly, and who wanted to change course. Helping a family de-escalate, reach a negotiating table, and arrive at an agreement both parties could accept is harder in some ways than a straightforward collaborative matter. It is also a reminder of why the model exists.

The legal work is genuinely complex, particularly when assets include closely held businesses, executive compensation structures, real estate portfolios, or investments that require careful valuation. But the harder challenge is helping people make sound, forward-looking decisions when they are under significant emotional stress.
 
My training in positive psychology and coaching, which I pursued through certifications in 2013 and 2024, shapes how I approach that. The goal is not just a legally sound agreement. It is an agreement the client can live with and build from.

The moment that changed everything happened at a Matrimonial Committee meeting of the New York City Bar Association. A group of attorneys was presenting on collaborative divorce — two attorneys agreeing not to litigate, full disclosure, no threats, focused on the interests of the family rather than positions. I was sitting around a long conference table with about 30 other lawyers when the light seemed to shine down on that table and show me a path I had never seen before.
 
I looked around the room expecting to see the same reaction. Instead, I saw boredom and doubt. I knew then that this was the direction for my practice.
 
That was the beginning. The conviction that how couples divorce matters as much as whether they divorce — and that keeping families out of court protects not just their finances but their ability to function afterward — has shaped every decision I have made since.

The amount of information available about divorce is overwhelming and often contradictory. For someone navigating this for the first time, it can be difficult to know what is true, what applies to their situation, and who is actually looking out for them.

For those who are not quite ready or are feeling unsure about how to proceed, our Pre-Divorce Legal Guidance service offers a commitment-free way to understand your rights, your exposure, and your realistic options before you make any major moves or decisions. Most clients who use it as a starting point say they wish they had heard about it sooner.

If you'd like to learn more about how specific issues are addressed with a non-adversarial approach, ABetter Divorce with Andrea Vacca covers the financial, legal, and human dimensions of divorce that most attorneys don't talk about in language you can understand and apply to your own life. Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and wherever you get your podcasts.

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