Adam Berner

Berner Law & Mediation Group was founded with the unique focus of helping individuals and families in conflict reach resolutions together, in a problem-solving way, instead of against each other, in a destructive way. Our law firm can offer you several advantages over traditional ways of divorcing, among them cost-effectiveness, durability, and a process that promotes respect rather than prolonging hostility.

Whether in the context of divorce (our primary focus), other family, family business, or workplace disputes, our client-centered approach seeks to create a safe and trusting space to engage in constructive dialogue and perspective-taking. We also conduct financial and legal analyses, where applicable, to provide a deeper understanding of the financial and legal realities. This helps clients make informed, optimal decisions about how to move forward in their lives.

Our Philosophy

Adam Berner, the founder of our firm, was one of the first lawyers in the New York and New Jersey area to practice Alternative Dispute Resolution. He saw families torn apart by divorce and other conflicts as they navigated the court system. He knew there had to be a better way.

Adam built a practice that places clients first, recognizing that divorce has many dimensions: legal, emotional, psychological, and parental. He built a team that maintained the same values. Our team is made up of people who believe the work we do is crucial because a courtroom is not the place to resolve family issues. Our practice creates a trusting environment that facilitates conversation between divorcing spouses and other disputing parties, encouraging them to understand the facts of the situation, address each other’s priorities, and take charge of shaping their futures through mediation and collaborative law.

Berner Law & Mediation Group

What is divorce mediation?

Divorce mediation is a confidential, voluntary process where a neutral mediator helps both parties reach agreements. The mediator facilitates discussion but does not take sides or make decisions. The goal is to reach a mutually acceptable settlement outside of court.

How does mediation work?

The mediator facilitates discussions and helps explore options. The mediator does not make decisions; all outcomes are decided by the parties. 

What issues can mediation address?

Mediation can address custody, parenting time, child support, alimony, division of assets and debts, and other divorce-related concerns.

Is mediation right for my situation?

Mediation works best when both parties are willing to participate in good faith. It can be effective even if communication is difficult. We can schedule a consultation to help determine if mediation is appropriate.

Do both spouses need to agree to mediation for it to work?

Yes, mediation is voluntary and requires participation from both parties. If one person is unsure, we can explain the process to help them understand the benefits.

How long does mediation take?

Some matters are resolved in a few sessions, while others take longer, depending on complexity and cooperation.

What is the cost of mediation, and how is it billed?

Mediation is billed at an hourly rate. Costs depend on the number of sessions and the complexity of the issues. We can explain current rates and payment policies during intake.

Is mediation confidential?

Yes. Mediation communications are confidential.

Do I need an attorney during mediation?

While not required, many clients choose to consult with an attorney for guidance. It is recommended to have an attorney review the final agreement before signing.

What happens after we reach an agreement?

The mediator prepares a settlement agreement that can be reviewed by attorneys.  Once the agreement is signed, an uncontested divorce can be filed.