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What Are the Third-Party Rights to Custody and Visitation in Connecticut?

What you should know about third-party child custody and visitation rights in Connecticut.

Joseph C. Maya

Joseph C. Maya

October 16, 2025 05:11 PM

Many individuals, such as grandparents, aunts, uncles, or close family friends, often seek clarity on the custody and visitation rights available to non-parents in Connecticut. While there are notable similarities between custody and visitation cases involving third parties, some differences are crucial to comprehend.

Third-Party Visitation

The Connecticut Supreme Court case Roth v. Weston set forth significant criteria for third parties seeking visitation rights with a minor. A third party must establish a parent-like relationship with the child and demonstrate that denying visitation would cause emotional harm comparable to neglect or dependence under the state's temporary custody laws. The allegations must be proven by "clear and convincing evidence," a more stringent criterion than the "preponderance of the evidence" standard. This strict standard stems partly from the United States Supreme Court decision in Troxel v. Granville, which underscores the fundamental liberty interest parents have in the care, custody, and control of their children. Essentially, unless exceptional circumstances exist, the law favors the autonomy of parents to raise their children without outside interference.

Custody vs. Visitation Rights

The Connecticut Supreme Court distinguished third-party visitation from custody in Fish v. Fish. In visitation disputes, a third party challenges a fit parent's decision to limit visitation, presuming the parent acts in the child's best interest. The potential harm stems from the lack of contact with the third party, not from the parent-child relationship itself, which is considered beneficial. Conversely, a third party custody petition questions the parent's overall ability to care for their child and may involve physical, emotional, or psychological harm to the child. Since custody cases dispute the parent-child relationship's foundational nature, they require a more nuanced approach to protect the parent's liberty interest while considering the child's welfare.

In Fish, the Supreme Court maintained that the legal presumption favoring parental custody could be overcome only in rare circumstances, proving that remaining in the parent's custody would clearly harm the child. This harm must be substantial, surpassing temporary distress from a dissolution proceeding, and must arise from a dysfunctional parent-child relationship established over time.

Challenges of Third-Party Custody and Visitation

In Connecticut, the hurdles for third parties seeking custody or visitation rights are significant. The challenging standards for demonstrating harm make establishing these rights a complex legal endeavor, requiring a careful and considered approach.

Contact Us

If you have any questions regarding third-party child custody and visitation rights in Connecticut, or wish to consult an attorney regarding a legal matter, please contact Joseph C. Maya and the attorneys at Maya Murphy, P.C. at (203) 221-3100 or Jmaya@mayalaw.com to arrange a free initial consultation.

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